How to Wash Delicate Lingerie Without Ruining It

Let’s be real—your favorite lace bra or silk panties deserve more than a rough spin in the washing machine. As someone who’s tested dozens of lingerie care methods (and ruined a few pricey pieces along the way), I’ve learned what works and what doesn’t. If you’re tossing delicate lingerie in with your regular laundry, you’re playing Russian roulette with your undergarments.

Why Hand-Washing Wins Every Time

Machines are harsh. Even on the gentle cycle, agitation and heat break down elastic fibers and snag lace. According to The Textile Institute, hand-washing can extend the life of delicate fabrics by up to 60% compared to machine washing.

Still not convinced? Check out this quick comparison:

See that drop in lifespan? Yeah, it’s brutal. That $80 bra you love? It won’t last half as long if you machine-wash it.

The Right Way to Hand-Wash Lingerie

Here’s my foolproof 5-step method I’ve shared with clients as a lingerie care specialist:

1. Use cold water – Hot water weakens elastics and dyes.
2. Add a mild detergent – I recommend Woolite or The Laundress Delicate Wash. Regular detergents are too harsh.
3. Soak for 3–5 minutes – Don’t scrub! Gently swirl the garment.
4. Rinse thoroughly – Residue attracts dirt and causes odors.
5. Press, don’t wring – Roll in a towel to remove excess water.

Drying: Skip the Dryer, Seriously

Heat is the enemy of spandex and lace. Always air-dry lingerie flat or hanging—but never by the straps. Over time, this stretches them out. I hang mine over a drying rack using clothespins on the side seams.

When You *Must* Use a Machine

Okay, fine—you’re traveling or short on time. At least protect your pieces:

• Place items in a mesh laundry bag (zip it!)
• Use cold water and delicate cycle only
• Never overload—give garments room to move

But remember: even with precautions, machine washing reduces longevity. Reserve it for emergencies.

Storage Matters More Than You Think

How you store lingerie affects its shape. Bras should be stored flat or in drawer dividers—not crumpled at the bottom of a drawer. And always hook bras before washing or storing to maintain band integrity.

Pro tip: Rotate your bras. Wearing the same one two days in a row doesn’t give the elastic time to rebound. Two-day rotation = longer life.

If you want your delicate lingerie to stay soft, supportive, and stunning, treat it right from day one. Start using these habits now, and your future self (and wallet) will thank you. For more tips, check out our full guide on delicate fabric care.